"For women, learning to relax and be in the moment can help with orgasmic function as well as building desire." It can also help your relationship outside the bedroom by improving intimate communication. licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, and author of Getting the Sex You Want. "Tantra can help men suffering from premature ejaculation because it slows down the process of sex and removes the pressure to perform," says Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.
Perhaps the best part of tantric sex is that it benefits everyone. Partners turn the focus on one another (like through massage), which prolongs and builds arousal, say Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels, co-authors of Tantra for Erotic Empowerment and The Essence of Tantric Sexuality. One biggie: "worshipping" or serving each other. There's no rulebook, per say, but at the heart of tantra are sexual rituals that get you in the mood and help you connect with your partner. "It's not orgasm-focused, so it works for individuals who may have anxiety achieving an orgasm too fast or not at all."
"Tantra is an ancient Hindu practice, translating to the weaving and expansion of energy, that promotes deeper intimacy by using breath, slower touch, energy, and delayed orgasm," says Dawn Michael, Ph.D., certified sexuality counselor, clinical sexologist, and author of My Husband Won't Have Sex With Me. But tantric sex has actually been around for thousands of years and has origins in the same teachings as yoga. Maybe you have a vague sense that it involves prolonging a dude's erection (which it kind of does). You've probably heard about tantric sex before. It's that long, slow, "souls-connecting" type of sex that honestly sounds simultaneously intimidating and sexy AF. Let me introduce you to the exact opposite of that: tantric sex. Can I have some extra cream please?Ģ0.Sometimes, sex can be a little wham-bam. The only thing more attractive than men who can make a baby giggle is a baby who can make a man giggle.Ī tall Java Chip Frappuccino, with whipped cream and a hint of cinnamon and brown sugar. Knows that being protective and jealous are two different thingsīut doesn’t tell you their dictionary meanings every day at breakfast. Respects your virtual relationship with Ranveer Singh (or any other celebrity)Įven though Ranveer Singh has no clue that he’s in one.ġ7. Messages you right after a date to tell you he had a fantastic timeīecause if someone waits for three days to tell you they had a great time, they’d wait even longer to tell you that you are the one.ġ6. Knows all your close friends on a first name basisīut knows that they will always be your friends first.ġ4. Just like a whiskey baron on his ninth measure, nothing less.ġ3. Can hold his alcohol just like he holds your hands at the movies He’s got his Cards against Humanity right.ġ2. Believes that the only games people should play are board games Doesn’t think twice before telling you how he feels about youĪnd you shouldn’t think twice about dating him either.ġ1.
Why order for the table when you can order salad for yourself and guiltlessly share his fries?ġ0. But at the same time, also shares his French fries with you …but will not finish your food (unless you really want him to.)ĩ. Every once in a while, he also finishes your sentences
On the other hand, he’s a glass full of amazing.Ĩ. Thinks that the only glass that is half empty is your glass of gin and tonic, and orders you a repeat The world would have a lot more romances if men weren’t afraid of messaging twice in a row.īut not in the way that it’d make you cry - so you can continue eating your double scoop of chocolate chip ice cream, without worrying about the fact that he’ll tell you it’s going to make you fat.ħ. Leave the passive aggression for the parents, not the pretty boy sitting across you at the dinner table.ĥ. Might be passive in a fight, but not passive aggressive Now split your life with him, as you split that cheque.Ĥ.
The men who don’t feel like they are entitled to free drinks and a meal, just because you asked them out on a date are the best kind of men in the world. Insists on splitting the cheque instead of letting you pay Knows that if there’s no condom, there’s no sexĮven if you insist that it’s better when there’s nothing between you, which you shouldn’t. Here are twenty such boys that you need to go buy a wedding band for already:ġ. When you do find one of these boys, pull up your socks and take them (and make some space for their toothbrush in your shower cabinet if you can) before someone else does.īecause they will. But hidden between the bad tastes and the bad manners are a few good men, the same ones who shine bright and right. It’s full of deplorable narcissists self-obsessed gym freaks, dubious know-it-alls and the select few who never call back (and never give a reason for it). We’ve already established the world is littered with boys that you should never date.